cool_dude asked:


Both my X girl friends broke up with their boyfriends after we started knowing each other for a while as close friends.
Then we broke up due to various reasons.

I am 22. Now I have a 28 year girl who loves me and wants to break up with her current boyfriend.
I like her(she’s cute like a doll [she's asian] and her smile drives me crazy) but don’t want her to run through all the trouble later on. (Age/ her strict culture on interatial relationships)

My point; if she’s gonna leave that dude, she will regardless if it’s about me or not”
I asked her whats the reason to leave her boyfriend.
She said that she likes him but I am the only reason to leave cus she thinks I am very understanding and more caring. Basically we both are attracted to each other.

Furthermore; She’s one of my GOOD friends elder sister all living in one large house as happy house mates(including me)
So everyone will be SO SHOCKED to hear about this.
I don’t have a clue on what my friends reaction would be.

wht2do

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rencyreg asked:


I am a 50 year old, and for the last 5 years I have been home taking care of my elderly mother. My resume WAS out-of-sight, before then, I am a Admin Asst., who has excellent computer skills, and I have maintain those skills at home, doing odd jobs for people. I would like to re-enter the job market, what should I do about the five-year gap? Older people do not get hired as much anymore. California has a job shortage in office jobs. Can somebody tell me anything? I only worked in offices, since I was 15, so I don’t have any other real marketable skills.

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melhtims asked:


Poverty? Childrens health coverage? Medical care for the elderly?
What would you consider of the most importance?

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ravenwolf_mn asked:


I am taking care of my elderly father, and need to quit my job to do so. I have head that I could get pid for being my father’s PCA. Does anyone know if this is tru? BTW: I live in Minnesota.
Tamara H, the price of being with our love ones during their transitional stages may have no price tag, but food, utilities, and rent does, and I taking care of my dad is a full time job.

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stashley88 asked:


I live in CO. (Denver area) Im going to be caring for an elderly lady with alhzeimers. Im basically going to be watching her, making lunch/ snacks, cleaning the house and taking her for walks. She wears diapers, so I will need to help with that sometimes as well. I don’t want to charge too much because I can imagine it would get expensive for them. But, on the other hand, as we all do, I need to make a living. Any ideas?

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peyton31602 asked:


I am a married 26 yr old woman with three children ages 5, 3, and 5 months. I am extremely overweight ( 180lbs ). I just can’t seem to lose the weight. I am looking to lose atleast 40lbs. hopefully by spring. My Doc told me to give up the one thing I consume the most. Which is Mountain dew. It has been 3 weeks since I gave up drinking soda, and I havn’t even lost a pound. I am always busy cleaning house, and chasing kids all day, I hardly have time to sit and eat a meal. And I work evenings, and nights, taking care of an elderly couple. I just can’t seem to get this kick started. If anyone has any advice… it would be greatly appreciated.

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markadala asked:


she accepts to care for the son of my elder brother durring my presence and my absence.Help me

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YOUR BOSS IS HERE!!!!!!!!!!! asked:


My parents are out of town for a week and i have to take care of my little brother my elder sister is gone with my parents…..My little brother is 13…he recently had his first kiss….but there is a new teacher in his class….he likes her……he made me promise not to tell mom and dad….he asked me how should he try and forget the crush…….

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STEVE89 asked:


Into life as british subjects why do the muslim elders and clerics insist on secularisation i.e push for muslim only schools and insist that the younger community speak the language of their fathers homeland why do they create their own ghettoes to live in and look at non-muslims as outsiders and why if they shun all things british do they insist on having the same right of benefits and health care if they would not get this in their homeland

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SANTHI K asked:


This is regarding family problem. My friend is in a joint family with her husband daughter ,fil mil and fil’s sister. My friend whose family was of lesser financial position were not interested in the marriage on the first hand. When her husbands elder brother married a well to do girl and when they planned to move out of this joint family his parents got afraid of their old age and decided to go like this. This younger son looks after the family business, shares all his earnings with the whole family and stays in the same house. Now, after 15 years, the elder son is interested in taking care of parents, whenever a situation arises, he just takes position and do things and get good credit. so, now my friend is not able to accept this situation. They have kept the business for the younger son and house divided into 2. Friend thinks that she shared all her time and space and got raw deal. what to do.
She has to go thro’ lot of bad remarks in the family for her parents financial position

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